Family, Motivation, and the Decision to Return to College

Family, Motivation, and the Decision to Return to College
Rebecca Sanchez, B.S. Professional Communication major
March 30, 2026
Photographer
Jeremy Gasowski
Rebecca Sanchez and UNH Manchester campus building
Rebecca Sanchez and two sons accepting her Award

Rebecca Sanchez exemplifies determination. A single mother to middle schoolers, Kyle and Caleb, Rebecca transferred from Nashua Community College (NCC) to the Âé¶ąapp College of Professional Studies in 2024 to pursue an online bachelor's degree in Professional Communications. Despite facing significant personal challenges, including a period of housing insecurity where she relied on the support of friends and family, Rebecca remained focused on her goals. She leveraged her credits from NCC to accelerate her progress and quickly distinguished herself as a dedicated and driven student at UNH CPS. In recognition of her exceptional commitment, Rebecca was honored with the “Unsung Hero Award” by the University in April 2025. 

We sat down with Rebecca to learn more about her journey, how perseverance, purpose, and support have shaped her path, and how she’s building a brighter future for herself and her children.

How did your family influence your decision to go to college?

My family is at the heart of why I chose to pursue my education. Providing a stable income for my sons is my main motivation. They’re amazed by my essays and PowerPoint presentations. They’ve even volunteered to be “clients” in mock business interviews for my classes, which we still laugh about. It brings me so much joy to know I’m showing them that learning doesn’t end in adulthood. Education is lifelong.

Did you attend college right after high school?

No. I returned to college about five years after high school to study elementary education, but I was forced to put my education on hold. I became a full-time caregiver and homeschooled my sons, using what I had learned in a completely different way than I expected.

What motivated you to enroll at Nashua Community College?

I was working three minimum-wage jobs and couldn’t see a way out of the cycle. When I received an email saying I might qualify for tuition assistance through the state of New Hampshire, I immediately reached out to a case worker. NCC made sense because of its proximity, online options, and clear path to graduation.

What led you to UNH College of Professional Studies?

While on the NCC campus, I met a UNH representative who explained how my credits could transfer seamlessly. I was introduced to my academic advisor, Keri Bresaw, who walked me through my options and helped me see that completing my bachelor’s degree was truly possible. She made the process feel manageable, and that made all the difference.
 

Balancing Responsibilities
 

Rebecca Sanchez on her laptop

How do you manage school alongside work and family life?

I had to step away from full-time employment and take on work-study roles so I could focus on my academics. As a full-time parent to two middle-school boys, I’ve learned to multitask creatively—watching lectures while cooking dinner, folding laundry, or waiting at soccer practice. I save my toughest assignments for quiet time at the library and use every spare moment productively.

What has been the hardest part of juggling it all?

Letting go of perfection. I like finishing tasks from start to finish, but school doesn’t always work that way. Deadlines overlap, assignments build on each other, and flexibility is essential. I also struggle with guilt, sometimes feeling like I miss moments with my children. But I remind myself that they are why I’m doing this.

What helps you stay focused and organized?

Exercise in the morning sets the tone for my day. Coffee, water, and structure keep me moving. I’m taking an overload of courses—six per term—and completing both my bachelor’s degree and a business certificate in just two and a half years. I stay organized by completing one assignment fully before moving on to the next.

Were there moments you thought about quitting?

Yes—especially during spring 2025, when I was dual enrolled at UNH and NCC, working, and serving as Vice President and Treasurer of Phi Theta Kappa. I was overwhelmed and doubting myself. When I told my boyfriend how discouraged I felt, he asked me, “What if you do quit? What would you gain?” That question stays with me. Becoming a UNH graduate wasn’t possible until I made it possible—and I’m worth the effort.

“I’m doing this for my kids, but I’m also doing it for myself—to prove that it’s never too late to build a stable future and rewrite your story.”


Support & Community 

 

Who has been your biggest supporter?

Myself. After leaving an 18-year toxic relationship that convinced me I wasn’t smart or capable, I decided to prove that narrative wrong. My children are also incredible supporters. They celebrate my grades and push themselves harder in school because they see what’s possible.

How has the UNH CPS community supported you?

In countless ways. My advisor, Keri Bresaw, has been a mentor, advocate, and friend. I’ve been inspired by leaders across UNH CPS who opened doors, encouraged me to share my story, and connected me with career opportunities. This community truly sees students as whole people.

 

Future Goals & Impact

 

What are your goals after graduation?

I want to celebrate with my sons—maybe with a cruise—before fully stepping into the workforce. I’m actively seeking roles with organizations like BAE Systems, Raytheon, and U.S. Homeland Security. My goal is financial stability and meaningful work where I can contribute to a strong team.

How has your education shaped the future for your sons?

My communication courses have helped me understand diversity, collaboration, and real-world application—and I love that. More importantly, my sons see that perseverance matters. My advisor, Keri Bresaw, has had a tremendous influence on me, and I’m grateful to have a mentor who believes in my potential.

What advice would you give other adult learners considering returning to school?

Go for it. Your journey is yours—own it. Ask questions, build connections, and don’t be afraid to reach out to professors. Remote learning has challenges, but support is there if you seek it. You’ve got this.

For Rebecca Sanchez, returning to college wasn’t just about earning a degree. It was about rewriting her future and modeling possibilities for her two sons. 

 

It’s never too late to finish your degree and build the future you want.


Download, Finish Your Degree Online: An Adult Student’s Guide to College 

Published
March 30, 2026
Photographer
Jeremy Gasowski