Mostly, it was about the tassel. And her parents seeing her there on the field with the rest of her class on commencement day, celebrating the last four years and all the hard work that went into making it through them. And sharing the experience with her twin sister, Arianna, who had graduated from UNH Manchester two days earlier.
Jessica Nadeau â18 missed it all. Just days before UNHâs May 19 commencement she was sidelined by a medical event. For the and dual major, there was no throwing her cap in the air, no singing along to âHappy Trails,â no standing on her seat to search the crowd for her family.
And she was crushed.Ìę
But then, Joan Glutting, clinical associate professor of psychology, came up with an idea. She would hold a ârecommencementâ and inviteÌęNadeauâs parents and sister to attend. SheÌęasked a couple of faculty members toÌęjoin in. The response, she said, was incredible.
âI thought Iâd get maybe three people. I got 15,â Glutting said.
So, she emailed Nadeauâs mother, Heidi Nadeau, and cemented the plan. Shortly before 3 p.m. on Monday, June 11, the family gathered under the arch at Thompson Hall where Styliani Munroe â17 was waiting. Jessica Nadeau laughed as she hugged her friend and former classmate.
âIt was hard to keep it a secret â we talk every day,â Munroe said. âI felt very sad for her when she couldnât go to commencement. Iâm so happy they could do this for her.â
As they stood there, one faculty member after another walked up until all 15 were assembled. Nadeau just kept grinning while her family looked on in awe. Her father, Serge Nadeau, took a minute to collect himself and then said, âThe fact that UNH did this speaks volumes.â
âThat they put this together for one student is so incredible,â Heidi Nadeau said. âShe was devastated to miss graduation. Something as simple as being able to move your tassel over â you donât realize how much these things mean.â
It seems Glutting did. She printed a program. There was a processional; Nadeauâs boyfriend and sister walked with her behind Barbara White, associate professor of , and Charles Putnam, co-director of . The other faculty members stood near the flagpole. Nadeau, her boyfriend and her sister stood shoulder to shoulder, facing the group.
Jessica NadeauÌę(center) turns her tassel during her ârecommencement.â
âI am truly grateful and appreciative to all of the people that helped to create that moment for me,â the Auburn, New Hampshire, resident said after the ceremony. âThere are not enough words to describe the happiness and joy that I felt. Having all of the faculty take time out of their busy days just to come to a ârecommencementâ ceremony was incredibly humbling.â
During the ceremony, Glutting commended Nadeau for all her hard work. âYou completed three internships while you were here. You got multiple job offers; you could have chosen a job that was a little safer, but you didnât,â she said. (Nadeau starts work in July at , a psychiatric hospital in Hampstead, New Hampshire.) âYou embody all that a UNH student can be.â
She offered what she called a five-minute recap of commencement, citing remarks made by L.L. Bean Chairman Shawn Gorman â89, this yearâs speaker. A faculty member started the call-response âItâs a great day to be a Wildcat.â Senior vice provost of student life and dean of students Ted Kirkpatrick presented Nadeau with her diploma. Cristy Beemer, associate professor of English, led the group in singing the UNH alma mater.
And then, Nadeau turned her tassel.
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Jody Record â95 | Communications and Public Affairs | jody.record@unh.edu